6 Thoughts About Rape Jokes

I wrote this a while back — May 2013 it was published in America’s Comedy, but now America’s Comedy is no more… so I’m reposting it here.

Here are six of my thoughts about rape jokes:

1. To me, the offensive part of a poorly written rape, misogyny, or domestic violence joke is that somebody thought it was cool to subject all of us to hacky, shitty material. (Here is a link to an article by feminist Kate Harding, who is a rape survivor, and who lists 15 genuinely funny jokes about rape — 15 Jokes About Rape that Work) *(add this link to the bolded title http://kateharding.info/2012/07/13/15-rape-jokes-that-work/)

2. The point of comedy is to be funny. If you want to talk about something offensive, go for it, but be hilarious. Why tackle a dark topic a lot if you’re going to fail? That’s boring and depressing.

3. I find it insanely irritating when someone writes brilliant satire about rape / domestic violence and somebody with no sense of humor flaps their face about it. (Onion article entitled “Heartbroken Chris Brown Always Thought Rihanna Was Woman He’d Beat to Death” is funny for example.)

4. A lot of comedians who are misogynistic or discuss rape or domestic abuse are very funny. To me, the problem is not so much that we have these jokes, the problem is that we don’t make enough space for…